Shortly after university graduation, my a couple freshman roomies-turned-best friends gone to live in opposite sides of the nation once i lived in the latest Midwest. These were my anyone. Immediately after which while the lives will have they, several thousand miles got truly in the way.
Going from an in-person bond to long distance is like friendship whiplash. If shes not living within a few miles, she might as well be on another planet, right? Its normal to feel out of whack after being physically apart from a bestie. “You no longer have the same commonalities in your day, and may lose naturally occurring catch-up time you always had,” says Andrea Bonior, PhD, clinical psychologist and author of Detoxification Your ideas and The Friendship Fix.
Companionship is just easier when youre in the same place. A quick text, and youre sharing take-out and a Netflix binge. When this changes, you gotta give your friendship extra TLC to stay close. While its kind of like a long-distance relationship, Marisa G. Franco, PhD, psychologist and friendship expert, says theres also less pressure to be in constant contact. Čítať viac